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Join me as I navigate the world of online dating for the first time, review my dates, and spill the tea.

Well, it was supposed to be an online dating blog… but now, it’s just a dating blog! Turns out, meeting people in person works just as well, if not better. Let’s find out…

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A date in my life.

*Carlo, 29- The Worst Guy I’ve Ever Met
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*Carlo, 29- The Worst Guy I’ve Ever Met

"Nayomi! [my old address]”

I still couldn’t make out who was talking in this large group of guys. I’m also super blind in the dark. I was squinting and searching. Then he appeared… smoking his cigarette.

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*Gabe, 33- Three Strikes and You’re Out
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*Gabe, 33- Three Strikes and You’re Out

The next day I met a friend after work. Of course we were having a typical girl kiki and sharing our dating stories. I was telling her about my talking stage purgatory that just ended when I got a call.

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*Theo, 20 something- Cougar Nay
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*Theo, 20 something- Cougar Nay

It’s so interesting how you really never know what’s gonna happen next, when you’ll meet someone new. That has to be the best part about being single—anything is possible. A moment of calm can turn into excitement in two seconds… and that’s exactly what happened.

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*Luigi Mangione— 26
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*Luigi Mangione— 26

Luigi Mangione is the dreamboat this country desperately needs. Honestly, why debate policy when we could all just agree that Luigi’s eyebrows deserve their own holiday?

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Ask Nay
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Ask Nay

Darling readers,

We have our very first ‘Ask Nay’ advice submission. How exciting!

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Rejection
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Rejection

But it’s just the accumulation of rejection after rejection, beating down on me like the waves when I almost drowned in Miami (lol). I’m tired. I question myself a lot. My worth, my competence.

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*Mason, 29- The Surfer
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*Mason, 29- The Surfer

M: Damn…. You’re filling me up with testosterone (laughing). I feel like I’m pumped for my game tomorrow.

We were both laughing.

Then I realized- Oh shit, I’m supposed to meet up with my friends.

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*Nolan, 45- The Gentle Gangster: Part 2
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*Nolan, 45- The Gentle Gangster: Part 2

Nolan put one arm around me while the group was talking. I didn’t mind at all. Then he leans into my ear and says “can I have a kiss?”

Me: NOLAN!???

I looked at him in surprise, almost disbelief, but I was also laughing. I mean I wouldn’t put it past him to at least try. I know my chickens.

N: Ahaha okay, okay… half kiss? You can say no.

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*Karl, 45- Part 1: Five Hour Fling
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*Karl, 45- Part 1: Five Hour Fling

So whatever, we keep talking and he was just soooo nice and cute. Like he just had this really balanced, centered energy. Kind, fun, generous, handsome, smart, amazing job. It was like my dress was unzipping itself….

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*Karl, 45- Part 2: Ghosted
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*Karl, 45- Part 2: Ghosted

I mean, I know I can’t trust what guys say. Words are just words. We can say, fine- trust actions not words. But in my experience, I haven’t been able to trust actions either.

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*Dante, 35- Intergalactic P***y
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*Dante, 35- Intergalactic P***y

Me: What are you talking about? Planes? Helicopters? ….Drones?
He slightly shook his head. (he was already annoying me at this point but damn, good looking people get away with a lot. Life is not fair)
Me: Hot air balloons?
D: You know there’s other things that fly right?
Ew that was kinda condescending

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*Stefano, 35- The Freak
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*Stefano, 35- The Freak

I said sure without even thinking. As soon as I said it I was like, “what the f*ck… how do I get out of this.” I was just hoping he’d never text me. My friend was looking at me so confused because she knows he’s not the kind of guy I would be into…

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*Jamie, 27- Lisbon Lover: Part 9
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*Jamie, 27- Lisbon Lover: Part 9

After a while I was feeling …. idk I was just feeling. I knew these moments were fleeting. They would become memories… eventually distant memories. This happens to me a lot though.. even with my friends… anticipatory nostalgia. Missing something before it’s over. (Not very Buddhist live in the present of me). I kinda just wanted to slow down time... I got out of my chair and sat on his lap. But like… facing him so we could keep talking. It feels weird to say this now…but at the time, between the talking and kissing… it was like nothing outside of that balcony existed. I was in a blissful bubble.

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*Jamie, 27- Lisbon Lover: Part 8
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*Jamie, 27- Lisbon Lover: Part 8

It was an intimate 5 days. It definitely wasn’t like super romantic. It felt more like a trip with one of your best friends. Like effortless and funny. But still intimate. 5 days of pretty much doing everything together.

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